Despite your skill, you may unknowingly intimidate others in a more subtle way.In fact, you are probably more intimidating than you think you are; most leaders don’t see it in themselves.When you moderate or eliminate those subtle behaviors, chances are that others will follow your lead willingly and joyously.Just changing your behavior may not be enough to overcome your intimidating behaviors because if you don’t actually think differently, others will see right through your less-than-genuine behavior.After all, some sensitive souls who could be off-put by forceful behavior might make amazing partners.Change your approach, and you’ll likely see a change in the results you’ve been getting in your romantic life.
Make the guys you meet feel important, suggests dating coach Paige Parker on the Your Tango website.
When you perform actions such as crossing your arms, furrowing your brow or continually checking your phone, you appear disinterested and unapproachable.
Instead, remember to make eye contact and smile at the guys you are interested in.
So how do i get girls to think of me more as a datable guy, my friend said that theres lots of girls who like me but there intimidated!
I've had nearly all my friends tell me at some point that before they knew me they were afraid to talk to me and were totally shocked when they found out that I'm nice.
If you need to be mean and intimidating toward someone, then you have to have an attitude of "I don't care what anyone thinks," a healthy dose of confidence, and the words to back it up.